How Many IVF Cycles Should I Try Before Stopping?

This is one of the toughest questions people face during fertility treatment. IVF can be physically, emotionally, and financially draining. So, how many times should you try?

Cumulative Success Rates

Many people succeed after multiple IVF cycles. For example:

• 1st cycle: ~35% chance

• 2 cycles combined: ~50–60% chance

• 3 cycles combined: ~70–80% chance (in younger women)

Your doctor will discuss cumulative success specific to your age and health.

Factors to Consider

Age and Ovarian Reserve

Women under 35 often have higher chances even after several tries. For women over 40, success drops significantly with each cycle.

Embryo Quality

Poor embryo quality may suggest trying a different protocol, considering donor eggs, or stopping treatment.

Financial Resources

IVF is expensive, and repeated attempts can strain finances.

Emotional Health

The stress of repeated failures can be immense. Therapy, support groups, or fertility coaches can help you navigate these decisions.

When to Consider Other Options

If IVF continues to fail, options include:

• Donor eggs or sperm

• Gestational surrogacy

• Adoption

• Living child-free (a valid choice for many)

  
  

Seek Expert Advice

Always discuss your unique situation with your fertility specialist. A second opinion may also help clarify your options.

Bottom Line: There’s no universal number of cycles to try. Listen to your body, your heart, and your doctor.